(Can't fit in the box...must be too fat?)
I hate that we can't simply "be." I get that we need to have labels to differentiate or describe things, people, etc., but do we have to use the label to make someone fit into our world? Really, who gives a
shit what anyone does with their hair? Does it matter if someone dates the same gender, outside of their race or someone society finds not attractive? How does that impact our day?
I understand we need to categorize to understand some things. There are some girls who have really nice natural hairstyles that my hair cannot replicate, why? Because my texture is different. In addition, my mother being a "Ginger" is the reason my hair won't stay jet black no matter how hard I try. The color comes through and that's life. But, don't think of me as your "fan" and therefore, you are better than me, and I must have permission to say "Hello" to you. Or, if I like your blog don't accuse me of stalking you. I'm just a simple girl, who is doing her best to enjoy life, one day at a time, in a world of mean spiritedness and self actualization.
I truly hope people will think that no matter what we think of ourselves, people will try to label us based on THEIR issues. We don't need to live our life to please others, it's hard enough trying to be happy. Reject the box cherubs!
(Not taking myself serious feels good)